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Energize Yourself First To Energize Relationships!
Have you sat and listened to someone tell you all the bad things about their spouse
or boyfriend and wish they'd put an apple in it? "Luckily" now that I'm an expert
people listen to me more. That credibility makes a difference. Then I can, in turn
make a difference. This happened again today. I listened, then asked if she was done.
And she laughed! It's such a great feeling to be laughing at ourselves. And when
we get the dawning of Aha!, in fact each time we get it, we step up, elevating
ourselves toward our higher purpose. This is a fantastic place to be. Re-cognizing!
Which in turn raises our level of consciousness, toward enlightenment. Lightening!
Because the bottom line is, what are we attracting? What we want, or don't want.
It's always one or the other, depending on the vibration, or resonance we are in,
the energy or attitude we're emitting, our body language at the cellular level.
Whether we're aware of it or not, it's there, happening. Attracting!
Her complaining or analyzing (anal-lies) or just plain "trying to figure out" what
something is or why somebody is doing thus and so, or what they're thinking is just
plain negativity, resisting the existing. We can't figure somebody else out, most
notably when we cannot figure ourselves out! It took me a little while to see this
in myself but with more awareness, it becomes more obvious, so it didn't take too
long. The bottom line is, when we're in a state of Love, that's it! That's what our
return is also. In relationships, we have two options. Attract love or repel it.
Whatever we give out, we get back. All the mental chewing is social-conditioning
and something we do in ignor-ance, mis-under-standing love and the Laws of the
Universe (see "Revisiting Emotions") because we've not been taught them. It's
"wrong" thinking and what we get out of it is "wrong" as well. We "make-wrong."
We make others wrong and in the process, we're showing ourselves to be wrong, or
critical, judgmental, over-thinking, and as T. Harv Eker says, a crap-magnet!
Look at it this way. We always attract that which we are giving our attention to,
by the feeling leaving our body about it. Are you feeling the presence of what you
truly desire, or the absence of what that desire is? Which side of the coin are
you looking at, focused on, talking about, energizing?
If it's what you don't want, you'll get
it because you're energizing "the absence" of it, or the subject of the negative, for example getting rid of the cancer, you're still talking about the cancer, getting out of debt, you're still talking about the debt. If it's what you do want, you'll
get it for the very same reason, you're energizing it. Always focus on the good!
She rambled on a bit more. So, I said to her again, "are you done yet?" She laughed again, and said yes, then I got to the heart of the matter in her analyzing. When we kick back and observe or expect our
loved one to be doing all, giving all and being all, even though they may have said
they would, or even promised it, and they aren't doing it, even lifting a little
finger to do it, it doesn't help or serve us to be complaining about or criticizing
them for it. My friend had been in a big dilemma about relocating to be with this
new guy in her life and they'd been playing a cat-and-mouse game over it for weeks.
I explained how she was attracting that aspect of him by being in that energy of
herself. And how, when constantly and diligently staying in a state of Love ONLY
will attract the "Loving" in him back. It's essential we know how Love works!
The only power that exists in life is Love. The opposite of it is fear. All forms of
"negative" are fear-based, but call it whatever you want. If you look up "hate" in
the dictionary it means "to avoid". So you can understand terminology can be giving
a little twist to the same concept. Love and the absence of it is the most accurate.
When we are in a state of Love, we fill ourselves up and when overflowing with it, we
can then give Love to another. Everything comes from within. When somebody is by then
responding with Love, it is because you have attracted that like-energy into your own
experience. We must always remember that the Law of Attraction is in always in action!
So when we want to get down to the nitty gritty of this law and really fine-tune it
in our every moment, if we even have a question as to whether our relationship is
what we want or not, we have allowed doubt to creep into our decision to go for it
and have a contradiction situation going on. We do it with all relationships, not
just the romantic ones. So check this factor if it applies, and clean it up! Most
often it will appear when we need to understand it the most! That's why the present
moment is called "the gift." Those unconscious self-sabataging moments because we've
been hurt before re-appear and cause us the same "re-actions" time and time again
until we can clean it up and OUT of our DNA, our memory bank where we store it.
And observing it we tell our story from it, thereby recreating it, over and over.
Pure thought is Sprit flowing from our Higher Self through us onto this Earth plane.
It is Higher Consciousness speaking, creating, inspiring, always available to us, and
always loving. Loving unconditionally. This is the same energy as loving our pet. She
got the meaning clearly with this one right away because she has 14 ears following her around everywhere.
Luck is in actuality an acronym for Living Under Correct Knowledge. When we live by
the Laws of the Universe, we are in fact, living correctly. This brings up another
very important point that we are not usually taught, because these Laws have been at
some level held back from the masses for eons of time. When we live correctly, when
we are in alignment with our Higher Self, aka Spirit, or our natural state of Being,
of Love, perfect health, well-being, and we are happy! And when we are NOT happy or in
a state of joy, that very emotion is the key point for us to look at and say, well, if
I'm not happy it means I am not in alignment with my Self, God, my Love, or Spirit.
When we find our way back to Spirit, or God, or whatever term you wish to apply to our
Higher Power, we are at peace, and our heart speaks of peace and love and dwells in us
and surrounds us. That is what we can then share with others. If not, we're usually in
the state of vampire and wanting to "get" from somebody else. And being a crap-magnet.
Energizing is putting what we all know as the "heart and soul," all the love we have
into something. Whether it's the meal we're preparing, the paper we're writing, the
fence we're building, the client we're serving or the loving relationship we'd like to
have. We have to step up, take accountability for our every thought, our feelings and
our actions going out there and what the return to us is. We can correct it when it's
not what we want by re-cognizing, rethinking what it is we truly want. Every moment!
As she began speaking of her aha moment, I could feel and hear the peace return in her.
She then understood the simple fact of energizing what we want together, what we want
to build and create together in relationship. She understood how the negative actions
of analysis were only making her crazy--indecisive, unfocused, confused and overwhelmed.
She could now "Stand Under" the Laws of the Universe, live in L.U.C.K. and create the
very deepest desires of her heart with her new loved one. Lucky guy! :) and lucky gal!
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